Where has anyone said anything derogative?
Let me see...when you generalize a behavior or appearance to a certain gender, or make sweeping generalities of any kind towards a gender, or make comments such as "ugh, men and their..." (...Padme........) then it becomes bigoted and sexist (unless it's like "ugh, men and their penuses). At that point one has made a derogatory statement.
mtntop, you're awesome in my book. Even if there is a chance you are trolling. However, nobody is going to really do anything about what's being said here until it becomes blatant disrespect. (rule of life, nobody can or will follow 'law'/'rule' to the letter)
EDIT: *deletes paragraph* Oh look at me, being a disrespectful idiot...as usual. D: