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This may come as no surprise to a few people, but I've decided that perhaps it's time for me to take a long break from this site.
When I first came here, I didn't really know what to expect. I just found this site on google and after a bit of skulking around, I decided, "Hey, why not join?" So I joined, and initially I was scared. It was a new site, and I was so hesitant to ask questions. I've always been fearful of meeting new people, because throughout my life I've always viewed myself as a screw up, someone unwanted. I was hesitant to talk to any staff, and I was so fearful that every mistake would just gather me hate. This feeling has been with me throughout most of my life, and it isn't hard to shake at the beginning.
But as the site went on, I made one of my favorite characters, Alask. I sucked ass at drawing then, and I wasn't the best at writing biographies and all that trash. (Granted this was my first time on an RP forum.) But eventually I managed to enjoy him more then my Jedi and past all the other characters in my arsenal. He was my number one, and eventually I got better and drawing! More time went on, and I met some really amazing people like Captain and others. I eventually managed to have Alask joined the Free Trade Guild, and things were going good.
However, I garnered a few experiences, and my opinions started to become bias. This only increased when one thing happened. During one point, I was brought into a battle by a friend, and this battle was horrible. Immediately, this battle brought up many problems, and it's no question that it was a total mess in some portions. It was then that someone shared a bit of knowledge with me, and I was angry. I didn't know how someone could do something like that, and I stayed silent because of that person's sake.
But I knew it wasn't the right thing to do, so slowly and surely it ate away at me. I should've have spoken up earlier, and I tried to, but I was afraid. I heard horror stories of people being banned, blackballed, and not a single word spoken about their bans. I was scared to speak my mind, because I was afraid of that happening to me. Raising my concerns only to wind up with the possibility of being blackballed from the site? That scared me.
Even now, I'm scared. I'm deathly afraid, and I know that the fear will probably never leave me now. But I'm used to the fear of life, and to the rumors I know have been circling. Don't think I don't know.
Now at this point, I feel like I don't belong here on SWRP anymore. I'm scared, and that fear isn't going to get any better. At this point, I think I just need to disappear for a bit and find a way to forget.
I had a lot of fun times on this site. I met a lot of cool people, but at the same time, I was never involved with this community. I never spent the time because I was so fearful, and now I probably never will thanks to that fear escalating. I'm sorry.
And to a special someone, I'm sorry. I know I screwed up. I'm a horrible person, and I won't stop you from taking out any hate or anger however you like. Berate me, insult me, do whatever you want. As long as you can feel better, I don't care. Because ultimately, you deserve more happiness then my sorry ass. You're a wonderful man, and I don't deserve your friendship. If you wish to hate me for all eternity, do so, because I'll at least be happy that you did what you needed to.
Maybe one day I can return and make things right. Maybe I'll never be able to.
Goodbye.
When I first came here, I didn't really know what to expect. I just found this site on google and after a bit of skulking around, I decided, "Hey, why not join?" So I joined, and initially I was scared. It was a new site, and I was so hesitant to ask questions. I've always been fearful of meeting new people, because throughout my life I've always viewed myself as a screw up, someone unwanted. I was hesitant to talk to any staff, and I was so fearful that every mistake would just gather me hate. This feeling has been with me throughout most of my life, and it isn't hard to shake at the beginning.
But as the site went on, I made one of my favorite characters, Alask. I sucked ass at drawing then, and I wasn't the best at writing biographies and all that trash. (Granted this was my first time on an RP forum.) But eventually I managed to enjoy him more then my Jedi and past all the other characters in my arsenal. He was my number one, and eventually I got better and drawing! More time went on, and I met some really amazing people like Captain and others. I eventually managed to have Alask joined the Free Trade Guild, and things were going good.
However, I garnered a few experiences, and my opinions started to become bias. This only increased when one thing happened. During one point, I was brought into a battle by a friend, and this battle was horrible. Immediately, this battle brought up many problems, and it's no question that it was a total mess in some portions. It was then that someone shared a bit of knowledge with me, and I was angry. I didn't know how someone could do something like that, and I stayed silent because of that person's sake.
But I knew it wasn't the right thing to do, so slowly and surely it ate away at me. I should've have spoken up earlier, and I tried to, but I was afraid. I heard horror stories of people being banned, blackballed, and not a single word spoken about their bans. I was scared to speak my mind, because I was afraid of that happening to me. Raising my concerns only to wind up with the possibility of being blackballed from the site? That scared me.
Even now, I'm scared. I'm deathly afraid, and I know that the fear will probably never leave me now. But I'm used to the fear of life, and to the rumors I know have been circling. Don't think I don't know.
Now at this point, I feel like I don't belong here on SWRP anymore. I'm scared, and that fear isn't going to get any better. At this point, I think I just need to disappear for a bit and find a way to forget.
I had a lot of fun times on this site. I met a lot of cool people, but at the same time, I was never involved with this community. I never spent the time because I was so fearful, and now I probably never will thanks to that fear escalating. I'm sorry.
And to a special someone, I'm sorry. I know I screwed up. I'm a horrible person, and I won't stop you from taking out any hate or anger however you like. Berate me, insult me, do whatever you want. As long as you can feel better, I don't care. Because ultimately, you deserve more happiness then my sorry ass. You're a wonderful man, and I don't deserve your friendship. If you wish to hate me for all eternity, do so, because I'll at least be happy that you did what you needed to.
Maybe one day I can return and make things right. Maybe I'll never be able to.
Goodbye.