How do you guys get over a break up?

[Chronicled]

Do what I did with my best friend when he got over his high school sweetheart (6 years), get really ****ing drunk and listen to 808 & Heartbreaks and My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy, and just about every other song Kanye has about being heart broken. It helped a lot, actually. Being depressed on a depressant drug (alcohol) listening to depressing music. The shrooms after that day actually might of been the magic behind it all, now that I'm thinking about it. [st]Oh, and hey, shrooms don't show up on MEPS drug tests from what I read on the internet...[/st]

But honestly everyone gets through heartbreaks a little different. All joking aside, I don't recommend listening to depressing break-up music, it incubates the feeling of sadness for most people. Or the reliance on drugs either, as a lot of people use it as a crutch it seems. Communication is key though, especially in real life with actual people that know you better/closer. Just being with any other people, doesn't have to be her [though in your case that might be best to communicate with her]. I mean, it seems like there's some underlying issue we don't really know about, or maybe you're not seeing quite just yet. We don't know every detail, obviously, so the best person to really figure it out is you.

In the mean time, find something and people to fill the space and your time. Stay busy and maybe do something you've always wanted to. Be young, experience different shit, I promise it's the greatest time to be alive if you let it be. Romantic love isn't the most important part of your life, you actually enjoying life is, however. Though if you're going to have joy, there's bound to be pain, right? Might as well embrace them both, or learn to let go as easily as you grab on to the feeling.

I'll be honest and say I didn't read anything but the crossed out part.

But what's even better is that DMT doesn't show up on anything. Ever.

 

[Srota]

Alcohol. Lots of alcohol. Drinking away the pain and hurt, downed a bottle of scotch the day after (happened to be Valentine's Day, btw).

 

[Chronicled]

It's okay. Today's one of my better days it seems. Not as depressed. I'm sure it's because I've been keeping occupied and not thinking about it so much. If I think about it it stings like. I don't even know.

I accidentally broke my ninja poi v4. Luckily I have a warranty and I'm going to be receiving fixed ones in a few days. Maybe I'll do some molly and then make a video for you guys.

I'm up 135lbs. I need 3 more. Yeah, maybe molly isn't such a good idea.

 

[Chronicled]

Alcohol. Lots of alcohol. Drinking away the pain and hurt, downed a bottle of scotch the day after (happened to be Valentine's Day, btw).

Valentine's day is our anniversary. :bittercrying::bittercrying::bittercrying:

 

[TWD26]

Insoulent and others posted some really good stuff and you should actually read it. People say drink and do drugs and stuff, but those don't solve your problems. YOU have to solve them, whether it's TIME (which heals anything) or you need to sit down and talk to this girl about what ever happened between you two.

 

[Chronicled]

Insoulent and others posted some really good stuff and you should actually read it. People say drink and do drugs and stuff, but those don't solve your problems. YOU have to solve them, whether it's TIME (which heals anything) or you need to sit down and talk to this girl about what ever happened between you two.

lol I read it, no worries. Yeah I'm good. Time will heal it- for us or for me depending on what happens in the future. You never really know. Anywho, I'll stop moping on here. I really appreciate the advice. Mostly I've found that venting really helped, so I thank ye all for dealing with my shit.

 

[Black Noise]

Better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

You have enough advice here methink, no need to add my voice to the mix. Good luck mate, I hope you feel better soon.