Goodbye

Marf

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Ok, my head is clear, I'm no longer upset and I'm ready to politely and honestly explain my reasons for leaving the site. I'm writing this because I felt it was only polite to let you know why I've gone, instead of just abandoning those I promised to RP with.

I attempted to re-post new versions of my characters after archiving the old versions, which I did not think was against the rules. My characters have now been deleted and permanently archived. It was my fault and I did not think about my actions, but my characters are just too important to me to replace.

Beyond that, I have been unhappy role-playing here for a long time. The way the site functions, the rules, the focus on PvP, the attitude towards character death, the Sith faction... is just not for me and I have made the decision to find an RP space that is more suited to my writing style. This is not a complaint about the site, this is me simply stating that the way I function as a person and a writer is not compatible with how this site works. I've spent more time being in grief, feeling restricted or trying to "suck it up princess" than actually enjoying myself and I hope you can respect that I need to find a more appropriate RP space for the sake of my mental well-being. I often tried to convince myself that I was happy here, but I was in denial.

I have found a site that is perfectly suited to my tastes and has far more opportunities for people who approach RP the way I do. I've been hesitant to leave SWRP for a long time because I'm so attached to the community here. I still value every one of you as friends and you're more than welcome to keep in touch or write with me elsewhere.

I hope you all enjoy your time here and I'd like to thank you all for being great friends and supporting me over the years.

I really hope this didn't sound like a ragequit, because that was not my intention. I just wanted to explain my reasons for leaving to clear up any misunderstanding.
 
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The Kyzer

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I get it, Marf. Good luck on your future RPs!
 

Gamov

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Ah, it's unfortunate to see you go, Marf. But I sympathize with, and understand, your choice.

Good luck out there. I have little doubt a writer of your caliber will have trouble finding a new home.

All the best!
 

Nor'baal

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Very sad to see you go Marf, and I empathize with your reasoning.

You're a great writer and you've been a benefit to the site. You'll be missed.
 

Dark child

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I regret not doing any threads with you. You are an incredible writer.
 

Narsi

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Awwwww
Well good luck Marf
You shall be missed
 

Undine

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Love you as always Marf, your definitely one of my favorite people to RP with and I hope to run into you somewhere else one day. Best of luck.​
 

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Leaving permanently? Sorry to hear that. Good bye
 

Marf

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Leaving permanently? Sorry to hear that. Good bye
I will still keep in touch with people here, but my reasons for leaving the RP were pretty clear.
 
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:^(

It was a pleasure to work beside you when you were Sith FL, @Marf, even if I was just another insignificant Sith cliche, and it was likewise a pleasure to have read all your remarkably detailed stories and profiles. I hope you do choose to linger 'round here.

Cheers, Murfeh.
 

Galad J. Victus

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Very sad. I haven't been the most active and participating here on SWRP, but I remember very well you were among the very first people I roleplayed with when I came around years ago. I understand very well and easily empathize with your reasons, also.

Best of luck Marf, hope you find the place of your dreams.
 
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