Seems excessive? Either way I want to introduce her to people in a low-stress way but no luck so far.
Sith have a tendency for the excessive! Quite possibly it's because you have placed your character in a difficult place for others to interact with, in her own apartment. Maybe continue the thread and get her out of the house?
Eh, I figured an open door would have allowed someone to at least trickle in, yeah? Either way you're probably right.