Haha well most lightsabers have a "low power" setting. I kinda assumed that's what you use when you spar but we never actually specified. Even those can leave burns though but typically they don't end in death
I'm usually up for anything. My signature shows 4 characters who can work at it. Smuggler with Hutts, Jedi Padawan, Rebel mandalorian, and a Bounty Huntress. If you want to avoid a big fight, it can be hard to find a reason for them to meet and chat. My Jedi could do with some dark side confrontation. Doesn't have to be all fight as much as a chat and maybe a short tussle that ends in a draw or something.